Tony Speaks: swinging is liberating but ...communication and ground rules ..is the key ....but when you see your spouse or g.f. hooking mixing it up with another man,woman ,and or couple ...its a complete turn_on ..for a man watching you significant other eat pussy is a rush ...I have to say when the ex told Me to go out and bring a bi woman for her to enjoy as well as another endorphins rush ......Tinder and other dating and hookup sites are a help and a hindrance(too many insincere people ) Aff is great but same problem...so again communication and expectations are the key
I know several women who wont go to party's if single black guys are there, they NEVER bring their girl friends and can be obnoxious , Iv seen black couples thats nice .